girls night out
Met up with a couple of my girlfriends and some of their girlfriends and basically had a blast. A couple of drinks and hours of dancing amidst a sea of people. I dig that.
Well most of it anyway.
What drives me nuts is the guys who insist on grinding their cock against your ass. WTF? Do they really think that is sexy? Do they really think a girl is gonna go home with them because of it? Course I do suppose it’s happened once or twice. But hello, I am not going to meet my future husband in a bar, then again I suppose that isn’t what most drunk people are thinking about at 1am.
We have devised a nice little plan that seems to work, but last night was oh so efficient. Whenever one of us is having a guy grinding problem we raise our hands in the air which signals to us that they’ve had enough. We grab that particular girl’s hands and swing them through the middle of our group and to the other side. Completely away from the guy, cutting off any entry to our circle. It looks like a simple dance move. No harm no foul. But let me tell you some guys are so clueless. Couple of them kept edging their way around continuously harassing and just being an ass. Finally we got fed up and decided to tell them to bugger off which I hate because it should be a fun and relaxing night, but the guys get pissed when you tell them no.
Gotta say I also left with a bad impression of one of my closest friends. We were all dancing in our circle and out of the corner of my eye I see her hand grab something. I turn and she is taking a full beer from some guy we had exited from the grinding earlier and raising it to her mouth. I grabbed it, sloshing it over the edge and looked directly at her screaming “Are you fucking nuts? NO!!” And then pushed the full beer back into the guys hand. He looked a bit confused then shrugged. Not two seconds later I had to grab the beer from her again. I had had enough. I am not a frickin parent, so I turned the guy around and pushed him away from us. I mean does she know nothing? You never, ever take a drink from someone’s drink unless you know them really well, especially if out and about on the town. Does she know nothing about roofies? I mean, who does that? WHO. DOES. THAT.???
Other than that I had an absolutely fabulous time considering I didn’t want to go out in the first place as it was after working a closing shift. I was a bit tired.
Song of the night right here (skip to 1:34/3:08 if you can) couldn’t find the much better remix version we heard last night though but it’s still the song we were all singing as we left
November 10th, 2009 at 5:18 pm
OMG we do this exact same thing. Kinda walk up and grab her like we are too drunk to notice she is dancing and then haul ass to the other side of the room. Fuckers.